Sunday, December 28, 2014

38 weeks

Today : Today is 39 weeks! This picture is from Friday, when I was 38 weeks + 5 days


Weight Gain : 27 lbs ... thankfully I seem to have leveled out for now.

Maternity Clothes : Yes... starting to get pretty excited about what will happen when I get my normal wardrobe back! I'm going to have so many more outfit options... who knows how long it will actually take me to be able to fit back into them though.

Stretch marks : Still nothing to talk about. My belly button is pretty solidly poking through all my shirts though.

Sleep : Would be much better if I wasn't getting up a million times a night to go to the bathroom... also what is happening to my hips? I am so sore. Holy guacamole!

Sickness : My 12 hour work days finally caught up with me last weekend. It was the first time I noticed swelling in my feet. My back was so painful and sore I was literally sick and throwing up all night on Sunday/Monday. Needless to say, I cut back to 8 hour shifts this weekend and my boss is letting me pick my hours next weekend (yes I plan on working until this child is born.. what can I say, I love my job!)

Movement : I think I'm going to have a very active little boy. He has been nothing but wild my entire pregnancy. Yesterday we had a full house and Samson was moving around like crazy letting us know he was part of the party already. 

Cravings : Obviously Christmas cookies. That's the only explanation for the amount of sugar that I consumed this week...

Exciting happenings : Cash's last Christmas as an only child! I love this time of year and while it would have been fun to celebrate with Samson, it was nice to have one last year just us and the dog. We didn't do much to celebrate Christmas in the "traditional" sense, we actually didn't buy a single present for each other. This year Christmas meant a whole lot more than presents as we reflected on God's presence in our lives. The magnitude of God's gift to us seems even more monumental when we consider our own son and the tremendous sacrifice of God sending his Son to Earth to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins. Joy to the world, indeed!
After being so sick on Monday at my 38 week appointment, my doctor is thankfully extremely sympathetic to the "Get this baby out of my womb," cause. I'm so thankful for this entire pregnancy and this entire process, but I am more than ready to meet our son and see his beautiful face. We can't wait to count his ten fingers and his ten toes and whisper how much we love him before kissing his sweet cheeks. 

Merry Christmas from The West's!

Friday, December 19, 2014

37 weeks



Today : 37 weeks + 5 days

Weight Gain :  27-28 lbs? I’ve been weighing myself at home once a week and now I’ve been getting weighed at the doctor’s office every week also. Obviously those weights are different… I personally like to go by the scale at home.

Maternity Clothes : Yes! My maternity shirts are almost not long enough! Thank goodness there are only 2 more weeks or I might have to invest in some longer sizes.

Stretch marks : Still nothing. Woohoo!

Sleep : Other than frequent bathroom trips, I’ve been sleeping pretty good. I’ve been SO tired though, so I’ve been napping hard core this week.

Sickness : Nothing. Other than being tired all the time, I feel great.

Movement :  I think Samson is learning Zumba, he has been moving around like crazy this week. Hopefully that doesn’t mean he’s too content in there, personally I’d rather see his dance moves on the outside of my belly.

Cravings : I’ve noticed a seriously increase in my desire for protein this week. I’m normally not a huge red meat eater but I have been thinking about a cheeseburger for DAYS. I’ve been trying to hold out for supper tomorrow night :)

Exciting happenings : As of Monday Samson is measuring  a full week ahead. So unless I’ve eaten too many donuts (Me? No way.) it looks like Samson might take after his momma. I was a 9 pounder!

I’ve got my hospital bag packed, sort of. The essentials are definitely in there… or near there… like on the bedroom floor by the bag. But if there was an emergency, we’d be mostly prepared. Samson’s things are all laid out in his crib. So they would be easy to scoop in the bag after tossing in the rest of the essentials like toiletries and the camera.  I want to make sure it’s packed and organized really well, which has been the delay in the whole process. Also, I hear if you are all packed and ready you almost guarantee that your baby won’t come early.

Side note about the packing: I keep seeing all these suggestions that you put baby hats and mittens in the hospital bag to keep them warm and ensure they don’t scratch their faces. I don’t have any! I’ve only seen them at Target and they aren’t really that cute… where do you find those things?! I want to make sure I’ve got some so the nurses don’t get all judgey if I’m not prepared. 

Friday, December 12, 2014

36 weeks


Today : 36 weeks + 5 days

Weight Gain :  26-27 lbs. I'm not really sure at this point. Depends on how many Oreos I've eaten that day.

Maternity Clothes : Yep. Even my maternity shirts are feeling the stretch at this point…

Stretch marks : Zero, my belly button is 1/2 out, 1/2  … flat? Haha!

Sleep : I’ve become an early riser, waking up between 5:30-6:30 am every day. It’s been nice to wake up early with Aaron and get a little extra time together before he goes to work. I’ve been taking at least 1 nap a day though because holy guacamole, I have been SO tired! Growing a human is hard work!  Thankfully Cash is a good sport and will curl up beside me in bed or on the couch.

Sickness : A little acid reflux, one night of heartburn… thankfully feeling really good. Still having some carpal tunnel issues but nothing awful, although my fat/swollen fingers haven’t been able to wear my wedding rings for several weeks and I’m really missing them. And beer.

Movement :  I haven’t noticed a decrease in movement like they tell you should expect at this point in pregnancy, but the movement I do feel is a bit different. I wish I had the proper words to describe what it truly feels like having a baby in your belly, because while I was skeptical about it at first, I really love it & I think I really will miss it when my belly is (hopefully) flat again someday.

Cravings : I am really, really ready to be able to enjoy a nice beer or margarita again. However, one indulgence I have definitely given into this week is Double Stuffed Oreos. Between Aaron & I, I’m not sure who has eaten more of the package.

Exciting happenings : This whole pregnancy is going by SO fast. I am so ready to meet him, but I also feel like time should slow down a little bit … there is so much to have ready before Samson comes! I’ve really started to feel those nesting urges in the past few weeks and there is baby stuff ready to go all over our house. Something weird that has been going on is my desire to stock up on EVERYTHING... from toilet paper to dog food to meat for the freezer. I'm starting to feel like a doomsday prepper.

I started packing my hospital bag this week… I thought about packing my hospital bag this week. Most importantly what snacks I'd like to take. I had a sister-in-law who went into labor at 37 weeks which is just a few days from now for us, so I definitely feel the need to but I don't even know where to start. For sure next week! 

Aaron’s job for this weekend is to clean our car from top to bottom and install the car seat & base. It's definitely starting to feel real that 40 weeks is almost over, but it's crazy actually thinking about bringing our son home so soon! We are so, so excited :)

Thursday, December 11, 2014

Cloth Diapers : Part 2


Deciding to cloth diaper was fairly easy for us. Aaron says I’m the one who decided, but he really did get on board after we shelled out some serious dough on just TWO boxes of diapers. It really came down to money and me not being able to step down from a challenge. Since I will be working part time when I go back to work and won't be able to supplement our income as easily as before by picking up extra shifts we really had to tighten in our budget and find places to save. Plus, I'm not scared of poop. Not one bit. 

Several people have mentioned poop with utter disgust when I talk about cloth diapers, but I must admit, I’m no stranger. This may not be for the faint of heart, but I am an x-ray technologist at a major hospital in our area. I have seen things that will turn your stomach inside out. Poop, pee, puke, blood, gun shot wounds, stab wounds, foreign bodies, gangrene, open chest wounds, bones sticking out of body parts… I could go on but I’m sure you aren’t interested. Let's just say, I’m not worried about baby poop. And for the record, you folks who aren’t yet parents and think a throw-away Pampers are the key to not having to touch poop are in for a big surprise someday. Haha :)


To get started I made a list of things we'd need to start cloth diapering:
  • Diapers
  • Wipes
  • Diaper Pail/Bag for Nursery
  • Travel sized Wet Bags for the Diaper Bag
  • Inserts
  • Laundry Detergent
  • Diaper Sprayer
Diapers
We will be using Charlie Banana pocket diapers (all in two diapers) with snap front closure and adjustable elastic around the leg holes. This is a bit more pricey than other cloth diaper routes. But we felt comfortable with our decision knowing that we wanted convenience and quality. We also knew we would like to re-use the diapers in the future. These diapers are made to fit a newborn baby to potty training toddler. Our goal is to have 18-24 diapers, we probably won't buy them all before Samson is born though, because we'll want to be sure these work for him before going all in. 
  • Investment : $150 (12 diapers), approximately $300-350 for a complete stash
Wipes
These can be purchased and several people have even suggested baby wash cloths, but since I can sew I'm planning on just snagging some fabric from JoAnn's next time I'm on that end of town and making some of my own. It would be easy to use my own sewing machine, but to make them even faster, I'll probably borrow my mom's serger (Hi Mom! Thanks in advance!)   We will always have some disposable wipes on hand, but since we will already be doing diaper laundry, there is no reason we can't toss these in the laundry too. We'll have to see what works best for us but we'll either just use plain water to moisten the wipes or make a homemade spray to clean his tush with. 
  • Investment : $10, still need to purchase/make
Diaper Pail / Wet Bag for Nursery
I'm still up in the air about this. I can't decide if I simply want a bag to hang on a hook, or a bag to put in a pail. If used properly, both would contain odors and mess just fine. I really like the ubbi diaper pail. It can be filled with regular trash bags for disposable diapers (no fancy refills needed) or a washable wet bags for cloth diapers. It costs a whopping $80 though, which is pretty pricey when you include buying two full size wet bags to go along with it for $25 a piece. I'm open to suggestions here moms!
  • Investment : Not sure! Help!
Travel Size Wet Bag for Diaper Bag
Received a Planet Wise bag as a baby shower gift.  I'm planning on starting with two or three, but haven't purchased anymore yet. I really like the Planet Wise bag but, I've also heard good things about Itzy Ritzy bags. Any cloth diaper mommas have any other favorites? 
  • Investment : $0, received 1 as a gift ... plan on purchasing one more for $15.
Inserts
Charlie Banana diapers come with two microfiber inserts and should be able to withstand normal diaper situations all on their own. It's unlikely that we will have to purchase a full set of extra inserts to find success with our cloth diapers. However, I've heard boys might need a little extra absorbency to get a diaper to last, especially at night. My cousin Jessica, who is cloth diapering a little man of her own has given me some really awesome advice and generously gifted us a few extra Hemp doublers to test out. 
  • Investment : $0, received 3 as a gift ... typically run anywhere from $3-$8 a piece, depending on the material they are made of. Won't buy any more until we start cloth diapering and we find out what we really need.
Laundry Detergent

I've made my own laundry detergent in the past, so that was my first thought. Unfortunately though last year when we moved to our house outside city limits our water went from soft city water to hard country water. Our clothes simply weren't getting clean and it was much simpler to run to the store and buy a bottle of Tide versus fix the homemade detergent recipe. We have since switched to All Free & Clear and will be using it for both our clothes and Samson's clothes. However, we will be using a detergent specially made for cloth diapers to protect our diapers. We will be using Rockin Green : Bare Naked Babies Detergent. Our water company was recently bought out by city utilities and after they run the pipes all the way out to the boonies next year we'll have much softer water, so maybe I'll try some homemade detergent recipes out to save some money!
  • Investment : $0, our first bag was a gift! $16/bag, which does 90 loads in a he washer

Diaper Sprayer
Not a necessity, but an awesome poop avoidance device. This attaches to your toilet and sprays the diaper clean before you toss it in the diaper pail/bag. I wasn't sold on wanting one until I found the Diaper Dawgs company. The silicone "dawgs" that they are known for act as a barrier between you and whatever funk you might come across in the diaper. Their really cool product though is the collar that they make to keep the diaper sprayer's spray contained. If you want to see it in action, check out this video (warning: this video displays real diapers with real poop!)
  • Investment : $60 for the sprayer and the spray collar, we still need to purchase these
What I loved about making this list is that I can see exactly where our money is going and it's not in the trash! We recently bought a box of Newborn Huggies (88 diapers) and Size 1 Pampers Swaddlers (100 diapers) and spent $50! Holy smokes... that's just a few weeks worth of diapers. Not good for a tight budget. It also made my heart happy to think that some of these items were gifts and some our diapers will be paid for with gift cards. The generosity of our friends and family never ceases to amaze me. We feel SO loved and SO supported. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart!

I calculated our initial investment to include 24 diapers ($350), homemade wipes ($10), 1 additional travel wet bag ($15), 1 full size wet bag for the nursery ($15), and the diaper sprayer/spray collar ($60). Any additional wet bags or a diaper pail aren't a complete necessity. I didn't factor in detergent because there are far too many variables for a first time cloth-diaper mom to make an informed calculation. Hopefully I will do an update in the future once I have some experience and will re-evaluate this list and the costs involved.

Initial Grand Total : $450 

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

Cloth Diapers : Part 1

Disclaimer: You can find this information and more other places on the world wide web. This is my spin on the cloth diaper debate. I'm here for your entertainment folks, so keep that in mind and feel free to laugh at my jokes and weird humor. If not, it's going to be a really long and awkward post...


I’ve struggled to write this post for quite a long time. Probably due to the fact that I have had received lots of mixed reactions from several people. Positive and negative. The ones that didn’t necessarily shock me, but really annoyed me came from people who don’t even have kids. What?! If you haven’t lived 24/7 with a pottyin’ machine and been responsible for changing (and paying) for the diapers, I don’t think it’s fair for you to get all judgey. Who knew butts could be so controversial?

So first and foremost, I’m not trying to persuade anyone that my decision is better than anyone else’s. I'm not against disposable diapers by any means. Samson will be in them for the first several weeks of his life and we will always have them on hand, just in case. Cloth diapers have a lot of appeal for us though. Aaron and I put a lot of thought, effort and research into what was going to work for our family and this is what we decided to try. That being said, we are first time parents and there is a HUGE learning curve. This isn’t going to be a pros-cons list. I’m just trying to put some good cloth diaper vibes out there. I will be doing a separate post with specifics to our situation, like why I'm not that grossed out by poop and how much money we will be spending. This one will be wordy enough. So without future ado…

Cloth diapers will save us money. It will save us money on diapering kid number 1, it will save us even more money on kid number two, etc. It doesn’t matter how thrifty you are with your coupons or your economy sized boxed store brand diapers, you will literally spend hundreds thousands of dollars over the course of your child(rens) days in diapers. There are several websites that will break it down for you. If you are truly interested in the economics of it, feel free to google it. I won’t refer to any one website in particular because I feel like there are far too many variables to take into account for the variety of people who may be reading this. Your personal savings is dependent on the type and brand of both cloth diapers and brand of disposable diapers. I knew that the disposable diapers we would be using would be Huggies, Pampers, or something like Honest Company, so I consider our savings to be fairly substantial. Your savings would be less if you use a store brand disposable diaper. Your savings would be greater if you use a less expensive cloth diaper option. No matter how you slice it though, cloth diapering will save you money. A lot of it.

Cloth diapers are eco-friendly. Yes I will be doing more laundry, using more water and electricity than a strictly disposable family. I promised I wouldn’t be biased, but you are nuts if you think my extra laundry will have more impact on the environment than your poop bombs. Solid poop from a disposable diaper is supposed to be flushed down the toilet before tossing the diaper in the trash. Most people don’t know that, or they just don’t care. But just think of all the poop baking in those plastic Diaper Genie bags in the landfill. Can’t wait until our great-great-great-great-great grandkids dig that up. Our new washer and dryer are energy efficient and our diaper detergent is biodegradable, therefore reducing the impact of increased laundry loads. You are welcome future generation.
           
Cloth diapers are non-toxic and gentle. Aaron even judges me for this sometimes, but I usually am very cautious about what we put in to or on to our bodies. Except McDonalds French fries, God knew what he was doing when he created the French fry man. I try to make smart choices when it comes to certain foods and products that we consume and use. Do I think all things should be organic and 100% clean? No. Did you read what I said about the French fries? Also, if you think I’m wiping my tush with some eco-nut or store brand single ply, you are insane… I want it plush. Charmin all the way baby. As a kid, I had really sensitive skin and I’m sure my baby will be no different. If cared for properly, cloth diapers can help reduce skin rashes and irritations.
            
I could add that cloth diapers are cute, but I really think that’s a matter of opinion. They are cute now hanging out in Samson’s diaper drawer, but their job is to catch pee and poop, so I’m not sure that I could persuade anyone over to team cloth when that little blue diaper is doing it’s duty. It’s a diaper ya’ll. So instead of pointing out the cute factor, I’ll point out that there are so many types of cloth diapers. There is something that will fit in to every lifestyle and every budget.
            
If you are having a baby anytime soon and haven’t looked into cloth diapers, I highly recommend it. It wasn't something I would have ever considered until I started noticing people around me doing it and started asking questions. It's helpful if you have real people to use as resources, I have some friends and relatives who I consulted. If there are any introductory classes at shops or boutiques near you, check them out! 

Tomorrow I will be posting Part 2 and Friday will be my weekly update!! 

Friday, December 5, 2014

35 weeks


Today : 35 weeks + 5 days

Weight Gain : 25 lbs, same as last week

Maternity Clothes : Yep

Stretch marks : Nope. Belly button is approximately 1/2 in and 1/2 out and I guess I'd forgotten to mention I got that weird dark line down my belly a couple months ago, it's hard to miss now that my belly is out-to-here. 

Sleep : Elusive. I try to sleep as much as possible, but I'm still waking up at the crack of dawn! Thankfully, my weekday no-work schedule allows Cash & I to take a nice long nap in the morning after Aaron leaves for work. 
This is Cash letting me know we have slept long enough.
Sickness : Nothing this week except for one night of crazy acid reflux and my usual carpal tunnel fun & games.

Movement :  Yes! Sunday and Monday Samson was moving around like CRAZY. I'm a little nervous that he was working on switching positions, but it feels like he is still in the same head down position. We'll have to see what the doctor says at my 36 week appointment on Monday.

Cravings : I have been feeling some serious urges for chocolate lately. Not sure if that can be tied to pregnancy, but I've only got one more month to play that card so we'll just pretend, okay?

Exciting happenings : We started decorating for Christmas this week. I'm really feeling pregnant in the way that prevents me from bending over to pick things off the floor, so watching me arrange the tree skirt had to have been hilarious. Also there is a loose bulb somewhere in the top 12" of the tree but there is no way I see it ending well if I climb up on a chair to try and fix it, so we'll just let it stay dark. We'll call it "ombre lighting." Also there is no tree topper yet for the same reason. Eventually I think Aaron will start to feel festive and help a preggo out. 
Bah humbug.
We are making some strides in the nursery and I have done three loads of baby laundry, which is probably one of the cutest things ever. I took the time to fold his clothes, but I'm fully aware that there will come a day that I will literally throw them in the drawers unfolded (or leave them in the basket?) and that's totally okay... I will look back at pictures of the stacks of tiny folded laundry and laugh (or cry) at how much free time I once had.
This was at the beginning when I started pulling out the tiny little moose clothes. SO CUTE!
I have been working on a cloth diaper post, or two, and I expect to have it up sometime next week. I'm not expecting to have a full nursery post up until after there is a baby to show off the space MTV Cribs style (literally) but I'll make sure to include a few early sneak peeks before D-Day, which as of yesterday is less than a month away!

Saturday, November 29, 2014

34 weeks


Today : 34 weeks + 6 days

Weight gain : 25 lbs ... If I'm being honest, it's not been easy to see the scale climb higher & higher. When I first started noticing the "fullness" of pregnancy in my face, I might have cried.. but I try to remind myself that there will be days that I will miss this and I am so blessed to be able to experience this little miracle growing inside me.

Maternity clothes : Yep, regular shirts just don't cut it anymore. I am definitely wearing more leggings and yoga pants that maternity jeans though.. Pants are overrated.

Stretch marks : Nada. I might have high-fived my doctor this week when she said my belly looked really good & she didn't think I'd end up with any stretch marks. No pregnant woman will ever hear that enough. Ever. Also, my belly button is strangely cute and weird poking through my shirts, but thankfully still not a full blown outtie.

Sleep : I feel like I could go into hibernation into Samson gets here. There are not enough hours in the day for sleep. Also, I've been waking up no later than 6 am everyday, apparently Samson thinks that's an awesome time to wake up. We are in for it.

Sickness/symptoms : I accidentally gagged myself while brushing my teeth last night. I've never thrown up like that before.. It was so bizarre! I am still having carpal tunnel issues due to the swelling in my hands, but I've learned to cope with it. I'm having Braxton Hicks everyday & poor Aaron has to deal with me asking for a back rub everyday, but Husband of the Year is doing a great job :)

Movement : Yes! We had pizza & ice cream for Aaron's birthday this week and Samson went bananas! Apparently he knew it was daddy's birthday and was ready to party!

Cravings : My love of Dr. Pepper is stronger than ever before.

Exciting Happenings : After an eventful week of work, I was a total zombie on Monday, but at my 34 week appointment, everything looked to be right on track. Samson's still head down & heartbeat is about 135 bpm.

We had a change of heart and decided to get a Peg Perego Primo Viaggio 30/30 carseat instead of the Chicco Keyfit 30 we initially had planned upon. I felt really strongly about buying our car seat sooner than later, because I was starting to have some anxiety about going into labor without having one. We also got a stroller it could click into (Peg Perego Vela Easy Drive) and although its not the all black Baby Jogger City Mini I had my heart set on, it is definitely growing on me! 
Cash is not quite sure about this contraption that will be accompanying him on his walks this spring.
This week Aaron turned 25, and since he accidentally took my keys to work with him I wasn't able to get to the grocery in order to make him a birthday meal or cake (which is why we had pizza & ice cream). My pregnant lady emotions got the best of me & I definitely cried about how I was "the worst wife ever" when he got home. Thankfully, the ice cream made me feel less sad about that. ;)

Aaron & I have been able to spend the past 4 days together, which is completely unheard of due to our opposite schedules, but has been so awesome. Spending quality time with people you love is something you should never take for granted.

Today is both my mom & dad's birthday and we were blessed to be able to spend the day with them, two of my three brothers and their wives, and our extended family in Ohio. My cousin's wife Kate & I shared an amazing baby shower thrown by people we love most. Week 34 has sure been good to us, I can't wait to see what's in store for us next week :)
My sister-in-law Ashley and her beautiful baby girls!

For the record: Just one baby for me and one baby for Kate, no twins here!

Saturday, November 22, 2014

33 weeks

Today : 33 weeks + 6 days (this picture is from 2 days ago!)

Weight gain : 22-23 lbs ... I may or may not have accidently bought the biggest Dr Pepper available yesterday at the movie theater when I went to see Mockingjay. So after that, I'll be honest, I don't really want to know what the scale says.

Maternity Clothes : Yes! I just bought this blue dress from Old Navy in a size medium, non-maternity. It's so cute & comfortable!

Stretch marks : Still a no! Belly button is not officially an outtie, but it's visible through my t-shirts now. So weird!

Sleep : Getting more and more necessary and more and more elusive. Biology's weird trick of training you to be wide awake in the middle of the night in preparation for feeding a newborn is definitely not conducive to my 12 hour work days. 

Sickness : Acid reflux. Insomnia. Carpal tunnel. Braxton Hicks. Might not count as "sickness," but I definitely count it as terrible. Boo!

Movement : Yep. Just like when I saw Gone Girl, Samson went crazy for the surround sound at the movie theater. He's getting big enough to cause some trouble though, like making it hard to breathe when he pushes too hard against my ribs. Hopefully, he'll be nice to momma for the next couple weeks.

Cravings : FINALLY, after almost two weeks of anticipation, got my hands on a spicy Korean BBQ sandwich from Bahn Mi Barista (if you haven't been there, please go as soon you possibly can!) It's a little Vietnamese sandwich shop that my friend Holli got me hooked on last year.

Exciting happenings : Aaron's mom and one of my best friend's, Rachel, had baby showers for me last weekend. Both parties were so sweet and so special. Just as expected, Samson got a few pairs of those cute baby socks I talked about last week (one pair came with Batman capes attached) and some much needed baby essentials. Unfortunately, I don't have pictures from either shower. I was too busy opening gifts and I imagine everyone else was busy rangling their own babies. I can tell you that Aaron & I felt so loved and blessed by our friends and family. We are so thankful to be bringing Samson into such a great community.

In other cute news, Cash has been spending more and more time Samson's room with Aaron & I, as well as by himself. I think it's really pretty sweet that Cash has been taking his toys into Samson's room and he'll even curl up by his crib on occasion. I can't wait to see how he reacts when we bring his little brother home!
Cash's new favorite moose, Murphy. We bought him a toy to make up for the influx of baby gear...

Thursday, November 13, 2014

32 weeks


Today : 32 weeks + 4 days

Weight Gain :  22 lbs ... SERIOUSLY. After holding steady at the same weight for several weeks, boom, just in time for stepping on the scale at the doctor's office Samson and I had a huge growth spurt.  Roll your eyes if you want, but this part of pregnancy is one of my least favorites.

Maternity Clothes : Yep. Thankfully, a lot of my regular wardrobe does still fit. This pink shirt is from Victoria's Secret 4 years ago. Evidenced by this awesome #tbt from the weekend of my 20th birthday (Sorry about that cool filter, my flip phone and the Jersey Shore reference below. I loved college.)
Stretch marks : No. However, I am rocking a half-in, half-out belly button... very cool. 

Sleep : It could be worse. I've actually had a head cold the past few days so I've been taking Benadryl and sleeping through the worst of my carpal tunnel symptoms. Woohoo!

Sickness : Nothing. Feeling good!

Movement : Yes.. this little babe is constantly on the move. I got a pretty cute video of him shaking up my belly with some hiccups this week. He was positioned head down, tush up at my appointment on Monday. Hopefully he remembers that for the next 8 weeks!

Cravings : After finding out I'd gained 22 lbs, I've felt a little compelled to lay off the donuts (as often). I also seem to have my Dr Pepper craving under control at the moment. We may or may not had a late night french fry date earlier this week though... nobody's perfect ;)

Exciting happenings : Once again, we had a good doctor's appointment. Everything is measuring right on track, my blood pressure is good and Samson's heart rate is hanging out right around 140 bpm. 

Getting really excited about baby showers! There is something awesome about hanging out with family and friends, eating good food and getting your hands on all those soft, sweet, tiny baby things. Maybe it's the hormones, but at this point, tiny little baby socks melt me to a puddle. 

Friday, November 7, 2014

Nursery Updates

Most people ask me "is the nursery done yet?" and while it might seem like an innocent question, the answer is a definite no. While it's totally normal, it definitely stresses me out! Moms expecting their second baby might have pulled out a box of newborn clothes from storage or bought a few boxes of newborn diapers, but most of them would roll their eyes if you assumed they had the nursery done. No sweat, there are 9 weeks left. 

I feel like I have to remind myself (and some pushy askers) that I have several upcoming baby showers, and while I don't ever expect anyone to buy us anything, I know that they will (and we are SO grateful!) However, there are several things I would like to do myself for Samson's room because I want his room to be lovingly collected by his mama and daddy. First, we ordered a fun, modern style crib. We didn't want to spend a fortune, so we ordered it from Walmart.com. I'm super pleased with the quality and it arrived quickly. The next thing we decided to do was paint the room mint green and we *gasp* painted over the chalkboard wall. I still cant believe we did it, but the whole room is so bright and airy now. 

I posted last week that I found fabric that I wanted to use for a project  in his room. I wanted his room to be colorful and fit for a little troublemaker, but I also wanted to stay away from themes and create a place he can grow in to. I planned for most of the bigger fixtures of the room: crib, dresser, glider, curtains, etc. to be a neutral shade and wanted to drop in some fun flavor where I could. Once I picked out a fun fabric to base most of the room off of, I had the designer flip the fabric for me so the pattern would repeat itself and fit into the streamlined crib skirt I had in mind. 


I didn't follow any pattern or directions online, I just used all that good old fashioned know-how my momma gave me. I made an adjustable panel for the front, that will adjust easily as the crib lowers and two panels for the sides of the crib.
The ribbon ties I sewed on will just move back further towards to center of the crib to accommodate the shorter skirt length needed in the future. And just in case you were getting too impressed with all my skills, here is how I attached to non-moving side panels to the inside of the crib. 3M tape. Legit.  For the record: I meant to get some adhesive velcro squares, but I forgot, and Samson won't be crawling around, tugging on things for a while, so it might stay like this.
Now that that's done, we've got a much better understanding of what the room will look like. We hope to fill it with things we love that Samson will enjoy looking at and exploring. We have a lot of work left to do but the biggest projects include: purchasing a glider, painting the dresser, creating some wooden ledges to hang on the walls to hold his books, tackling the closet organization (this kid's walk in closet is huge!) and finally getting around to hanging things on the walls.  Smaller features I plan on focusing on next week include window treatments and the decoration above his crib. I'm leaning towards some gray and white curtains like these at Target... we'd add some blackout fabric to the back so our precious baby will sleep through nap time.
I'm still trying to talk myself out of these $18 a pop zinc letters from Anthropologie to spell his name out above his crib. I've looked into tons of other options and even investigated several DIY tutorials (none have impressed me). So far, I've been unsuccessful, so this might end up being the splurge for the room.
So while there is a lot to do, I think Aaron and I are a pretty efficient team... we might have a room ready for Samson before he's born. If not, he can always bunk with mom & dad until it's done ;)




31 weeks

Today : 31 weeks + 5 days

Weight Gain :  19.5 lbs

Maternity Clothes : Yep. Most days I mix and match. These are maternity jeggings from Old Navy my sister-in-law let me borrow. This shirt is just a medium non-maternity shirt from Old Navy, a size up from my regular. 


Stretch marks : No. My belly button is not really an innie anymore, although it doesn't qualify as an outie quite yet. I keep expecting to wake up one morning and it will have popped like one of those red thermometers you put in your Thanksgiving Turkey. 

Sleep : I'm getting plenty of sleep, but in weird shifts. I'm pretty consistent in waking up at 4:30 AM. I follow that up with a 2 hour nap after Aaron leaves for work. This means I've gone full hobbit mode a la Bilbo Baggins and have breakfast AND second breakfast. Fantastic.

Sickness : Nope

Movement : Yes.. there's a dance party in my belly right now. It's all fun and games until the elbows come out. I am starting to wonder if Samson might be laying side-to-side though, because more often than not I'm feeling jabs and kicks simultaneously on opposite sides of my belly. Another factor in my side-to-side theory is that my stomach feels lower than it has been in previous weeks and I think it would be too early for that to happen normally. 

Cravings : Peanut Butter Oatmeal... I think I've had it for breakfast every day this week. Except for today, because it was Friday and it was payday and we had donuts. Oh, and obviously Dr Pepper. 

Exciting happenings : Got coffee with a girlfriend I hadn't seen since this summer (sorry Holly!), went to Babies R Us with my mom, had some friends over for dinner, worked on some things for the nursery and got our first box of cloth diapers in the mail. 

As promised, I definitely plan on doing a dedicated post about our decision to cloth diaper and what it entails soon, but just in case you got really freaked out and started envisioning the earlier generations, white Gerber cloth diapers, diaper pins and plastic pants.. here is what cloth diapers look like today.

These are Charlie Banana one-size hybrid cloth diapers. Theoretically, these will fit Samson from birth to potty training and will last through multiple children. They go on just like disposable diapers and I promise there is no toilet dunking involved. The outside is a soft water-resistent fabric, the inside is fleece... which is definitely nicer than that maxi-pad feel of disposables. In between those layers is a pocket that you stuff with a soft microfiber insert. If you're still unsure about the whole thing, it's ok, Cash is too...
Also, one last bit of exciting news for the week... Due date milk is in stores now! I'm not sure why this has always been so fun for me. All big events are marked as near, upcoming and HOLY SMOKES EXCITING when you see them printed on something real and tangible. Graduation, weddings, birthdays, etc. Nobody else but my sister-in-law Ashley may get this excited about milk, but maybe I'll convert you.

If you aren't an organic milk drinker, you'll have to wait until December to nab some for your own refrigerator, but in the West household, we've got this date in our fridge and on our calendars! Woohoo!


Sunday, November 2, 2014

30 weeks

Today : 30 weeks +  5 days ( Halloween! Today I'm actually 31 weeks.. oops!)

Weight Gain :  18.5 lbs, same as last week

Maternity Clothes : Yep ... although the clothes I'm wearing in this picture are all non-maternity & I'm pretty sure that t-shirt is from high school. Just keeping it real.

Stretch marks : Nope. Update on the belly button: still IN, for now.
Sleep : Better this week. I'm probably one of the few pregnant women who doesn't sleep with a body pillow, shockingly, I prefer to sleep next to my husband ;) However, I've learned how to prop one of my hands up on the pillows by my head and the other on one of the extra throw pillows we have laying around and it has helped reduce my carpal tunnel symptoms. Also.. I have been drinking water like a FISH to help with water retention. 

Sickness : No, I felt really good this week!

Movement : Yes. It is oh so sweet to feel this little man squirm around. I know I'll miss this time with him when he is born, but I really can't wait to meet him.


Cravings : One of my co-workers brought me a corn dog for lunch last weekend after reading my blog post and it was GOOD. Definitely lived up to the hype. So far, I haven't wanted another one and haven't had any other cravings. I did decide to bake a Texas sheet cake at 9:30 PM one night. Not sure it qualified as a craving because who doesn't love a good chocolate cake? I prefer this recipe from The Pioneer Woman, because it is fast, easy, and SO good. Also, between the cake and the frosting it contains like a pound of butter y'all. Yum.


Exciting happenings : My 30 week appointment on Monday went really well. The fabric for Samson's room came, we picked up a jumper/bouncer toy from one of my co-workers and we ordered our first box of cloth diapers. (There is a another blog post or 10 involved with that decision, but all you really need to know is no, we aren't crazy, yes, I realize there will be poop involved, no, we won't exclusively be using cloth diapers and you can still send a diaper cake made of Pampers to my baby shower and they will gladly be used). I promise I will write about how we decided to try cloth diapers in another post. 

Also, it was Halloween week! I have really fond memories of my mom making a lot of my costumes growing up and trick-or-treating with my friends.  Aaron and I haven't celebrated Halloween in several years, so the last time I dressed up for Halloween was in college and I'm fairly certain it probably wasn't something that would be appropriate to talk about on our family blog (again, keeping it real for you) but maybe next year, we'll have some fun family friendly costumes. 

Friday, it was too cold to open and close the door for trick-or-treaters in Indiana, so we had a game night with friends from church. I made this festive popcorn munch loosely based on this recipe that I found on Pinterest. I made the popcorn on the stove, spread it out on a pan, threw on some Reese's pieces, candy corn, and peanuts, melted chocolate chips in the microwave and poured it on top. Yum.




Happy first week of November! There are only two more calendar flips between us and Samson (maybe only one!) Hope you have a good week :)


Thursday, October 23, 2014

29 weeks

Today : 29 weeks + 4 days

Weight Gain :  18.5 lbs ... I feel like I have been packing it on the last few weeks, but my belly is growing and it's pretty obvious that Samson is getting big. We also may or may not have a pumpkin shaped candy dish filled with goodies on the counter. Whatever.

Maternity Clothes : Obviously. Can I get an amen for leggings? All day, every day. 

Stretch marks : No. People keep telling me that it's bound to happen since my belly is growing so much, so fast, but I haven't seen any yet. Hopefully they don't ever make an appearance before OR after Samson's arrival. Fingers crossed!

However, my belly button is this.close to no longer being an innie... and it is freaking me out. Will it ever be the same? It's okay to lie to me if necessary.

Starbucks Salted Caramel Mocha Frappucino ... such a yummy treat!

Sleep : Will never be the same. One, I'm a grade A pumpkin smuggler at this point and a back sleeper by nature. I've succumbed to sleeping on my side, but it is not nearly as comfortable for me. Two, Sunday marked the onset of some pretty awesome carpal tunnel symptoms: numbness, tingling, decreased grip strength and PAIN. Oh my gosh. From my hands up to my shoulders.. No matter what I do it wakes me up every few hours. Pray for me!
Also, I ended up working 5 days in a row.. which is a BIG stretch from my normal 2 days on, 5 days off routine. I know, I know.. rough. BUT, it really did interfere with my already changed sleep schedule (especially since one of those days I worked 3rd shift). 

Sickness : I occasionally get some pretty bad reflux, I attribute that to my rapidly decreasing stomach capacity. Thankfully very rarely do I get heartburn.. But, I did have to cancel some plans last weekend because it was so bad. 

Movement : Yep! I'm starting to get to the point where I can definitely distinguish body parts. It's fun and sometimes painful. I'm convinced our little man is trying to make his way out of my belly button, but his (getting more frequent) swift kicks to the bladder remind me he does know what direction is up and what direction is down. Maybe we should have expected it, we named our little boy after the strongest man in the Bible.

Kisses from Cash as he helped me pick out the fabric for Sam's room.
 Cravings : Corn dogs. For the record, I haven't had any... yet.


Exciting happenings : A lot of extra work at the hospital this week. After that, I got to spend some time with one of my best friends, Holli, as well as my mom. 

Also, I FINALLY picked out the main fabric for Samson's room! I had to e-mail the designer to ask if she would be able to flip the design 90 degrees for me so it would work out for the project I have in mind, her response was seriously lightning fast and a big fat yes. Hallelujah! Can't wait to get my hands on this and get to work!